I would make this a bullet point post, but knowing me, the bullets would probably end up really long, and well, what’s the fucking point of a bullet post if each bullet is several (fun-filled!) paragraphs long? There’s no point, that’s what.
Just like those last two sentences.
Remember a couple weeks ago I got that text from Glen that said “I want to lick u from head to toe“?
Well, I neglected to mention my response to said text. I didn’t recognize the number, so I responded:
Who dis?
I like to get ghetto from time to time. I’m so ‘hood it hurts.
After his text confirming his identity, I responded with this:
You better be glad my baby daddy dint see dis
You know, to keep the ghetto vibe going. And also to ease the tension of the fact that, hello, you have a girlfriend and you texted me at 9:30 on a Sunday morning that you want to drag your tongue all over my body. And also because, hell to the no.
He sent about two apology texts, and that was the end of that.
Until yesterday.
When Glen called me at work.
He told me that he’d been driving and when he passed my neck of the woods, he decided to call me.
To ask me if I was pregnant.
Because I’d said something about a “baby daddy” in that last text.
These are the kind of people that roam the streets of my hometown. The people that vote in elections, bear children, and run for local office.
They’re all fucking idiots.
I assured him that no, there would be no mini LRC coming into the world anytime soon, and that’s when Glen told me that—WHAT DO YOU KNOW!— he, in fact, WAS expecting a mini-Glen in the future. He’d knocked up Amy and they were now engaged.
THEY’RE REPRODUCING!
She of I Like To Scream At Other Women In Bars And Snort Coke Off The Back Of The Toilet In The Ladies Room fame, and he of I Like To Text Women Other Than My Girlfriend At Strange Hours And Tell Them That I Want My Saliva All Over Them fame.
If you’ll excuse me, I have to go cry in a corner now, because the apocalypse is near. It’s only a matter of time before my town is overrun by worthless parasites, suckling at the teat of society. Snorting my tax dollars up their noses and puking all over the sidewalks.
In less depressing news, I really am warming up to The Lawyer. In an e-mail exchange with Narm last month, I even used this sentence to describe what I want out of a potential suitor:
Right now, I kinda just want someone who will play Mario Kart with me, rub my bum shoulder, and tell me how awesome I am.
- I have already played Mario Kart with The Lawyer, and I kicked his ass. Then he kicked mine right back.
- He has not given me a shoulder massage yet, but has alluded to it.
- This is part of our conversation last night:
The Lawyer: “Have I told you how awesome you were today?”
LRC: “No.”
The Lawyer: “You’re awesome. *smooch*”
FYI — he didn’t say smooch. He, uh, smooched me.
I’d say that’s pretty effin close right there.
You know what else I’ve discovered?
There are men out there who like to make plans.
Sometimes days in advance!
Holy fucking shit!
Also? I’ve learned that it’s okay to leave my phone in the other room and not check it every five seconds because OMG What if he texts? WHAT IF HE CALLS? WHAT IF IT CAN’T WAIT? because you know what? It is possible to know someone is into you. Without wondering. Without worrying. Without fear.
And that is a pretty great feeling.
Also, phone calls > texting. And he agrees with me on this:
“I mostly only text when I’m drunk. Which is why I usually text you from work.”
(He’s funny.)
I accepted his invitation to the beach. And I’m really, really looking forward to it.
I told him last night, “I guess there really are men out there who give a shit.”
I found one!
Happy weekend, y’all.







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May 8, 2009 at 1:14 pm
littlespoon
This? Is super exciting news
May 8, 2009 at 1:19 pm
laylou
to be totally obnoxious and to relate your story about finding a good man… at least two years before I met my current boyfriend, I told my friends that I wanted three things: 1) for him to bring me flowers on the first date (mostly because it had never happened) 2) that I wanted him to love my dog as much as I do and 3) that he had to dislike Valentine’s day as much as me, so much so that we would celebrate an opposite valentine’s day. And, um, I met a guy who did/does all of that. It’s kind of awesome so I’m super excited for you!!!
I don’t know much about glenn but what a weird-o. i don’t get why guys choose to text girls who aren’t their girlfriends with sexual suggestions.
May 8, 2009 at 2:11 pm
Narm
I’m famous! Thanks for the shoutout.
Glad you are coming around to The Lawyer. I know it’s hard to give up on dating rockstars but I promise the drama-less adventure of dating Normal Human Beings will still provide plenty of entertainment.
May 8, 2009 at 2:29 pm
Elle Bee
YAY! I’m excited for you and the Lawyer. You deserve more than smarmy baby daddies and their coke-snorting mistresses.
May 8, 2009 at 2:39 pm
shine
Now where’s mine?
I mean, yay for you! Seriously, I’m glad you’re warming up. It’s probably a sign of maturity that you were even patient enough to warm up. If not, it should be.
May 8, 2009 at 2:49 pm
Matt
I love how you keep it ghetto.
like, leaving rap lyrics on my blog comments? Love it.
May 8, 2009 at 3:13 pm
Little Miss Obsessive
Aw, I’m jealous… but so happy for you!
but still jealous, heh.
May 8, 2009 at 3:38 pm
Laurie | Your Ill-fitting Overcoat
HOLY SHIT, GIRL. I have been way off the blog train lately, but I’m glad I caught this post. It put a smile on my face from ear to ear. God I am so happy for you!!!
May 8, 2009 at 8:48 pm
Lost in Brooklyn
yay for you! pats on the back for the burgeoning feelings, and major major points for not being Glen’s baby-momma!
enjoy the beach
May 11, 2009 at 10:15 am
Just A Girl
Wait wait wait. Back the train up. There are guys who DON’T play games? And who just SAY that they like you?
I’m so confused right now.
Seriously though, woot! Good for you for giving The Lawyer a chance. He sounds just a tiny bit awesome if this was opposite day and tiny really meant totally.
May 11, 2009 at 12:58 pm
Princess Pointful
But if you were pregnant, you and Mrs Glen could raise your babies together and have joint baby showers and snort cocaine off the rattles you get in those baby showers. Come on!
May 13, 2009 at 4:21 am
blueskies2day
I initially thought that a “bum shoulder” was a body part, like the shoulder of your bum…
And yay, The Lawyer sounds lovely.
May 15, 2009 at 8:37 pm
Mel
You’re funny. Freakin’ funny…
May 28, 2009 at 9:58 am
Now I’m going to have “It’s a small world after all” running through my head all day. «
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