Clarification

I got a couple comments on yesterday’s post that basically said I was expecting too much from BE, that he was up front with his expectations from the start. I did not take offense to these comments, trust. I love all my commenters and consider the point of view of each of them. I HONESTLY DO! But they did make me realize there is something I have left out of this blog.

A few weeks ago, when we had our talk, BE revealed to me that he was not seeing anyone else, and he implied that he didn’t want me seeing anyone else either. So while we are not ‘official,’ we are ‘exclusive.’

Remember SoccerBoy? And how I haven’t mentioned any other men SINCE SoccerBoy?

That’s why.

So basically I’m expected to be loyal and faithful to him, and we don’t even have a real relationship.

AWESOME!

This is where my confusion and frustration stem from.

Just wanted to throw that out there.

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Oh, and also? I am participating in this on Tuesday:

Go here to find out more. I encourage you to share your big, dark secret. No one even has to know it’s you! But hurry, the deadline is Saturday!